Being a virgin is a big deal in this part of the world. Being a virgin means you are properly well brought up, means that you possess good morals, means you are not like every other girl, infact it confers sainthood upon you. If you are a virgin then you are most definitely a saint: the holiest of holies. This is how you are seen by a lot of people.
Now, getting married a virgin automatically crowns you as a virtuous woman who will get 100% love and dedication from Mr. Husband because “he was the first to hit it”.
Our society expects nothing else but perfection from such marriages and thus, they make it seem like once you marry a virgin, all the “wahalas” that comes with married life are virtually wiped off your slate.
However, some situations have proven that being a “virgin” is not all it takes to have a successful marriage and Nigerian comedienne Chioma Omeruah popularly known as “Chigul” just revealed that she married a virgin at 33 and still her marriage crashed less than a year after.
This brings me to very vital questions:
- IS VIRGINITY THE ULTIMATE KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE?
- IF YOU MARRY YOUR WIFE AS A VIRGIN, DOES IT CHANGE ANYTHING?
- IF BEING A VIRGIN IN NIGERIAN SOCIETY CANNOT KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE, THEN WHAT CAN?.
- GUYS CAN YOU MARRY A VIRGIN?
Watch the interview where she revealed Her big secret. It is Episode 9 of Kemi Adetiba’s king women.